Generally, I decided, it was better to wait, if you had any feeling for the individual. If you hated her right off, it was better to fuck her right off; if you didn't, it was better to wait, then fuck her and hate her later on.

Charles Bukowski
About This Quote

This is a paraphrasing of a quote from John Cheever (1912-1982), the American novelist and short story writer. In this quote, Cheever is saying that you should wait until you get to know the person before having sex with them. If you only get to know the person later on in life and if you hate them then it would be better to never have sex with them. However, if you get to know the person and like them then it's OK to have sex with them.

Source: Women

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